I’ve encountered a few women who’ve asked me the question “what’s the point of pleasuring myself…why would I want to do that?”
Now this question might come from a lack of awareness around the fact that a woman’s pleasure is her own and actually doesn’t belong to men. Our pleasure is OURS, forever and always.
We weren’t born so sexually desirous and filled with pleasure, which is continuously stripped away from us as we grow into adolescence, to solely devote that desire and pleasure to a man.
I know that many women may actually struggle with the idea of being or feeling sexual too.
It could also come from a woman’s fear of her own pleasure. Of her pussy and erotic nature. This is very common. A fear of all that lies inside of a woman’s body, primed and ready for sensual and erotic pleasure.
Or maybe it comes from society having a double standard where men can have sex and masturbate freely, but if a woman touches herself or loves sex? She’s a nymphomaniac whore. I’m done with us slut shaming ourselves and each other as women.
I’ve cultivated 10 of my tops reasons for why you (as a woman) should be having sex with yourself regularly. Click play to listen and learn:
- 10 reasons why you should have sex with yourself regularly (they’re juicy!)
- How one of these reasons continues to effect me every single time I self pleasure
- Why you should self pleasure in THIS specific scenario…when it’s usually the last thing you want to do
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THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
I have a free ebook available for you if you want to learn how to use your pleasure, sexual energy and orgasm to create, magnetize and manifest your desires to you! You can download The Erotic Woman’s Guide to Deeper Pleasure, More Orgasms & Getting What She Wants here.
I also have a free video series coming out in the next week that you can sign up for called the Manifest Through Orgasm Video Series. You can sign up for that here.
Self Pleasure as a Spiritual Practice
Reclaiming Our Innocence Through Sexual Healing
Woman: An Intimate Geography by Natalie Angier
I’d love for you to comment below and tell me:
- Which of these reasons pulls you to start having sex with yourself regularly the most?
- Do you have another reason you’d like to add to the conversation?
xx
Amber