I’ve honestly never really been that into the 69 sex position…
In the past with ex lovers it always felt awkward. I never knew how to transition in and out of the position without feeling clumsy, unsexy and really exposed.
Plus I felt like my genitals were being attacked (so I’d close down and leave my body to protect myself) and even my throat and mouth felt under attack, which at the time, wasn’t all that pleasurable for me.
My body, pussy and throat weren’t open enough in those days to receive that kind of stimulation and I definitely didn’t have a healthy relationship and sex dynamic with men in the past.
So…it wasn’t that great for me…that is until I experienced the most heart-opening, pleasurable and, might I add, smooth and easy 69 experience with my current partner.
We’ve done this a few times over the course of our relationship and it’s always felt really good with him…but there was something special about this particular time.
It was a few weeks ago and our intimate and passionate 69 experience ignited something deep within me. Yes, it ignited my sexual energy from deep within, but I also mean that it sparked the idea of sharing what exactly it was about this 69 experience that made it feel so orgasmic, sexy and easy.
I know so many women feel self conscious, unsexy and awkward being in the 69 position. I know I always felt exposed and unsure of what to really do with my body, which left me feeling tense, strained and unable to fully relax and enjoy.
Of course, I also know a lot of women who feel totally powerful, sexy, surrendered and wild in this position, which is totally amazing and what we’re after. It’s how I want to feel when I’m in the 69 position!
I want to feel like I can trust my partner and my sexual energy…to be able to fully surrender to him (and myself) as I offer pleasure to him and receive pleasure from him simultaneously.
I want to feel opened, pleasured and embodied. Like I can stay IN my body and not close down or leave my body and dissociate.
Plus I want to feel empowered, turned on, intimate, passionate and in sync with my lover as we mutually give and receive pleasure.
That’s why I made a video talking about the best way to do the 69 position. I invite you to try out the suggestions I’m going to share and play around with it to find the best way for YOU and your lover(s) to do the 69 position.
I want you to feel pleasured, orgasmic and filled with juicy sexual energy while you enjoy this position. You can watch that video below!
I would love for you to share this video with any woman (or your lover!) in your life to spread the 69 sex position love! You can subscribe to my YouTube channel here to stay updated with my weekly video.
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I’d love to know how you want to feel when you practice this position with your partner(s). Do you enjoy this position currently? Is there something you need in order to surrender to more pleasure here?
With deep love,
Amber
P.S. I’m opening doors for my sex magic course for women very soon! If you’ve been interested in orgasmic manifestation, then download my free Solo Sex Magic ebook and you’ll receive an exclusive email invitation to play with me in this sacred sex magic space. More details coming soon on this limited time offering.