Shedding Shame, Finding Self Love Through Masturbation & Owning Your Sexual Shadows with Vanessa Cuccia

A couple of years ago when I was getting deeper into my own sexual healing journey I somehow stumbled upon a beautiful company called Chakrubs — the original crystal sex toy company. I don’t quite remember how I found this website, but I’m so fucking glad I did. 

I had been craving to go deeper into my vagina through self pleasure as opposed to being addicted to clitoral orgasms. I chose to gift myself with the slim version The Heart, crafted from beautiful rose quartz crystal. Rose quartz is perfect for self-love, compassion and healing the heart. The vagina and heart are beautifully connected by a sexual reflexology point and meridian near the vaginal opening and cervix. 

Ever since I recreated my first time and connected back to my erotic innocence using my Chakrub, I’ve been deeply in love with this company and Vanessa’s mission for it. Especially her newest line — The Shadow Line. 

If you’ve been around in my world for any amount of time then you probably already know how much I adore working with things like releasing sexual shame, especially through embracing our sexual shadows or inner darkness. Dancing seductively with it. Making love to it.

When Vanessa released her Shadow Line I knew I had to talk with her and bring a juicy conversation to you expressing and sharing her wisdom. 

Here’s what Vanessa and I dive into:

• Dancing with your darkness through accepting your own sexual shadow
• Vanessa shares her first masturbation experience with Chakrubs
• How the idea of Chakrubs came to her 
• Why her mission is actually much deeper than “crystal dildos”

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You can check Chakrubs out here. I highly recommend checking out the Shadow Line here. My own sexual shadow archetype — my Inner Shadow Seductress — has been lusting after every single item in this line. 

Vanessa Cuccia is the founder and creator of Chakrubs; the sexual wellness brand that utilizes crystals in their products to promote self-soothing for those seeking physical pleasure as well as spiritual and emotional support. Since 2011, Cuccia has developed an ethos in her brand that has helped her following discover energetic blocks whether from sexual traumas or heartbreak and work through these blocks to facilitate overall well-being.